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Let's be real: It's easy for a long-term relationship to turn stale, which is why I've created an official roundup of allllll the things that belong on your sex bucket list. You're gonna want to bookmark this baby. First, let's review why you should have a sex bucket list in the first place. Spicing up your sex life helps keep your entire relationship fresh and exciting, says Janet BritoPhD, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist in Honolulu, Hawaii.
If you're not down to try something out, that's cool! Just make sure you're regularly checking in with your partner to make sure they're satisfied with the sex you've been having together, too.
Now for the grand reveal: Keep reading for yes, ! Brito suggests taking sex beyond the bedroom. That includes the couch, the kitchen table, and, well, anywhere else you can think of! Okay so this isn't necessarily full-on sex, but finding a parking spot and making out in the car like teens can be super fun, says Brito.
Not into PDA? Just keep the car in your driveway. Find the steamiest erotica you possibly can and read it out loud to each other to set the mood, explains Brito. Feel like it might be a li'l awk? That's fine, laughter can also lead to Fun sex with a couple. Yes, threesomes are a big step, so read these threesome stories before you take the leap, and make sure to discuss some ground rules with your partner. Yeah, seeing each other is great. But hearing your partner's sexy AF voice on the other end of the phone, telling you all the naughty things they'd be doing to you right now?
Also great. Here's exactly how to have phone sex without feeling awkward. Choose a video together, or each of you can pick your own to share. Need ideas? Check out some female-friendly porn sites here. Yes, butt stuff can be fun if you do it the right way. Take things very slow, have looots of lube ready to use, and enjoy. Speaking of lube, there are tons of lubes out there: all-naturalsilicone-based, CBD, you name it.
Try adding different ones to your repertoire each kind adds something differentand see which you like best. Use ice cream for temperature play by taking spoonfuls and circling them around each other's erogenous zones. Plus, it'll taste good and look super sexy when you lick it off. It's fun to be someone else for a little while. Ask your partner what kind of role play they might enjoy and choose a night to act out your parts. And no, it doesn't need to be super complicated. Like, maybe you two could pretend to be strangers that just met at a bar or while on a beach vacay.
It's truly up to you. Game night, but make it hot. Don't know where to find one?
No worries. Women's Health compiled a pretty kick-ass list of sexy board games that'll heat up the bedroom. Shower sex isn't as simple as it looks, but if you're willing to give it a try, the payoff can be major. Start out by getting hot and steamy under the showerhead while kissing, then you can move things to the bedroom when you wanna finish. What is ASMR sexexactly? The short version is that it's all about finding an auditory or visual trigger that turns you on. Did you know that moaning during sex can make you have a better orgasm?
When you moan your throat opens, your breathing slows, and your pelvic floor muscles relax, which can lead to a totally mind-blowing finish. The more you know! It's like that whole ice cream trick, except with ice cubes. A bonus? Cubes give you more control over where you run those ice-cold temps along the skin, and there's way less cleanup involved. If dirty talk isn't already a part of your routine, it's time to add it in ASAP. Dirty talk may feel unnatural at firstbut once you get into it, it makes everything you're doing that much sexier.
If you're in separate places or if you just feel like being in separate rooms, hahtry giving your partner a sexy show on FaceTime or whatever video app you use. You guys can masturbate at the same time, take turns, talk about all the things you'd do to each other, and so much more. Let's face it. Using sex toys like vibrators while you're getting it on just makes sex that much hotter.
Shop for one or two They're not just for Halloween! If you haven't added sexy costumes to your role play sitch yet, it's time to do so now. Just picture your S. Create your own scavenger hunt and make each clue a sexual act, says Brito. You can hide different hints around your home, each with a sexy task like 'makeout for one minute' or Fun sex with a couple a few neck kisses down your partner's neck.
Well, that's up to you.
A pair of fluffy handcuffs are the perf way for you and bae to add some light bondage play to your routine. Protection is always key. But why not also add some flavor literally to your condom use so that protection tastes yummy, too? Here's exactly how to drip melted wax safely! Texting all the dirty things you want to do when you see each other next is the ultimate version of foreplay. Use a tie, an extra t-shirt, a sleep mask, or invest in an actual sexy blindfold.
The anticipation of your partner running their hands and mouth all up and down your body but not knowing when or how they're going to do it is super hot. A little bit of consensual!
Just make sure you have a safe word and establish boundaries beforehand. C'mon, everybody's got a few. You and your partner can swap fantasies and then decide if, where, and when you want to give them a shot, says Brito. Communication is everything. This is your moment to make sex even more special than usual. Maybe you can even surprise them by walking into the room wearing your birthday suit wink wink. If you're not familiar with BSDM, at the most basic level, it's an acronym for multiple : bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism, all of which occur in a judgment-free and consent-based zone of trust.
That's a lot to take in, so if you're not sure where to start, here's a beginner's guide to BDSM. Make it a goal of yours to get it on while visiting every state in the country. Major props to whoever achieves this one. Got a yard all to yourself? Lay down a blanket or don't and get to werk. Bonus points if you have a pool! Rolling over and getting it on first thing in the morning is all kinds of awesome. Is there really a better way to start your day than with an orgasm?
Build a fort in your living room. Once you're done, you can celebrate by cozying up and getting it on inside. Ever heard of tantric sex? It promotes intimacy with deep breathing, connection, and delayed orgasm.
Basically, you try doing everything you can to make your sex session last as long as possible. Check out these tantric sex tips for beginners if you're intrigued. If you've never tried a butt plug before, now's the time. You'll never know if you don't try! Do some online shopping with your partner to see which kind you both might like.
Trust me, there are sooo many options. Add some dildos to your sex toy inventory because why not? Lighting a fire will definitely set the mood. Make things extra romantic by adding some wine and sexy PJ's to the mix, too. Don't have a fireplace? Pull up a fireplace video on Youtube, turn on your heater, and do your best to make believe.
Draw des on each other with the spray bottle. Then comes the fun part: eating it all off! Sit your S. Once you're done, you'll be all over each other. Everyone knows that a playlist can make or break a sexy experience. Spend time with your partner crafting the perfect playlist, press play, and enjoy the fruits of your labor. I have a few in mind. All of which are from Normal People.
Sure, masturbation can be a private thing. But it's also super hawt to watch each other get off, too. It's also a great way to learn more about what your partner likes and doesn't like. This one is truly a classic. Either put on the steamiest show you can imagine or just press play on the series you're currently watchingthen see how many episodes you can get through before you succumb to sex. You've had sex while naked tons of times. Try keeping as many articles of clothing on as you can.Fun sex with a couple
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